I’m not one to advocate going to a movie for a first date; other than the discussion of what movie to see, there’s little opportunity for conversation. And dates — especially first dates — are all about conversation, the chance to learn about one another. You need to know something about the other person in order to enjoy the snuggle-up time.

Teenage Couple Necking in a Movie Theater

However, some people find the lack of conversation more relaxing for a first date — and others find themselves going to movies on a first date because that’s what the other planned. In either case, the way to make the most of a date to the movies is to stop for coffee or pie or something afterwards. (Don’t worry, about adding on an extra thing to pay for. If he’s cheap, or you simply fear how it will look, make it clear when you suggest stopping at the dinner, that you’ll pay for it.)

After the movie, you can both discuss what you liked or didn’t like about the movie. Don’t view this as some intimidating film critiquing experience; just talk about what you saw, what you liked, etc. To avoid coming across as negative or slamming his film choice (and therefore the date), don’t talk about what you hated — unless/until he does.