How Not To Be An Annoying Eco/Vegan Gal June 30, 2009
When you hear about all the terrible things happening to animals, people and the environment every day, it’s easy to want to shout it from the rooftops. Working in animal rights and humane ed, I read about extinction, global warming, farm animal hell, and usually some pre serial killer actions by male teens like microwaving animals for fun. And it makes me feel ill, angry, and it makes me want to tell people about everything wrong with the world.
Here is the problem with that. No one (including myself) likes to be lectured. So, how do we go about asking people to do their part if we aren’t taking the direct approach? This article talks about some ways you can do it. I think they are pretty accurate.
The biggest thing I think someone can do is to lead by example. Don’t tell someone about everything they do wrong. Just do it right yourself, and make sure people see you do it. Cook your yummy organic vegan foods for others. Talk about the great shelter where you adopted your dog. Bring delicious dishes to your relatives meaty gathering. Bring your reusable water bottle everywhere so people ask where you got it - get a cute one so other girls will want the awesome accessory. Whenever someone compliments your sexy vegan thrift shop finds, tell them excitedly about where you got them and how much you love thrift shops. Emphasize saving money, health, and other benefits that are more self serving - not just altruistic.
Use their questions to get your point across. That way, you aren’t lecturing - you’re just providing answers to their questions. It can be hard to hold your tongue when you see people doing things that suck the life out of the planet and its resources. But the phrase “you catch more flies with honey” is the damn truth. Vinegar just gets you dirty looks and no real change.








